Mother's Day

We celebrated Mother's Day at Smallwoods this afternoon.

Smallwoods is a small farmhouse fruit stand that has turned into a fun-filled family center.  Besides selling the fruits and vegetables that they grow, they have a house filled with jams, jellies, preserves, soaps, jewelry, and about every little chotch-key you can imagine.  Then there is the petting zoo, the cow train, greenhouses, chicken coops, pigeons, swings, horse shoes, ball toss, cowboy roping, etc.   You get the picture.  We stopped off and picked up some venison and elk brats and drinks for a picnic and then explored the grounds.  It was fun and relaxing.  A good way to celebrate the day.

Maifest 2012

It is Maifest time again...parades, dancing, polka, wrapping of the maypole, and more.

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Play Time

Bonnie's play premiered last night.   She did a good job and I was really proud of her.  Bonnie was one of the maids in waiting and was in most of the choruses.  She had a dance number and was also featured as Cinderella in one scene.  

 In case you didn't know, Once Upon a Mattress is the story of the Princess and the Pea.  You know, the story about the queen wanting to make sure the girl her son, the Prince, wants to marry is a true princess so she sends the girl to sleep on twenty mattress and places a small pea under the bottom one.  The princess couldn't sleep all night because of the little lump made by the pea, therefore, declaring that she is a true princess.

 Of course, this play tells the details behind the whole story. The young men and women did an awesome job

with their acting, singing, and dancing.  The set was amazing.  I told you before that a young man who is originally from Leavenworth, but now designs sets in Hollywood, put their set together.  It will be a sad day when the kids have to tear it down and repaint the floors their boring black. 

 

Curtain Call

Frantic Friday

Frantic Friday, Full Friday, Fun Friday....however, you want to call it.  It's today.

I am still at church watching the clock; waiting for it to hit the noon hour so the kids and I can go home.  I don't know that I got a lot accomplished.  I got part of the bulletin done, the Children's church curriculum is ready for the next month and a half, the T&T Girls room has been cleaned up and reorganized, and I worked on the table decorations for the Ladies' Retreat which is next weekend.  Brian and Bonnie finished their school work, while Bryce still has more to go.  He did complete his math and part of his language, but was having a caniption (is that a word?) about diagraming his sentences. I decided to have him take a break and pick it back up after lunch.  We are all on allergy meds and they seem to be making us all groggy.  I thought the new stuff wasn't supposed to do that.  I might have to switch antihistamines. 

Tonight is Bonnie's play, Once Upon a Mattress.  I am excited to see it.  I volunteered to make cookies and sell them at the concession stand, so I will be busy this afternoon baking cookies.  I think I will make Monster Cookies and Oatmeal/choc. chip cookies.  Yum!  The worst part about making cookies for a group like that is individually wrapping them to sell. Yuck!  Unfortunately, I volunteered to make cookies for three out of the four nights.  I hope people like them.

My Idol

Have you ever read a devotional book that hits you right between the eyes?  I mean, the author is speaking right to you and knows exactly what all of your strengths and weaknesses are?  Today's devotional with the kids was like that.  We have often talked about idols and what that means in today's context.  I mean, I don't have a Buddha or some statue of a saint in my house that I pray to or give offerings to, but we all have idols in our lives.  Idols are those things that we spend more time focusing on and relying on for our sanity, our safety, our security, etc. than God.  For some it's money, for others it is power or fame.  For me, well, for me it is self-reliance.  I like to have things in control and know that I can do just about anything myself.  I don't want to be a burden on anyone, so I will handle anything that comes up and you don't have to worry about anything.  I got it under control. 

Today, that feeling of having it all under control was being challenged and I wasn't liking it.  You see, we had a group of people in town visit our church and I arranged housing for them and let host families know what their responsibilities were.  However, the day before our guest arrived changes started being made.  Mind you I had planned out the all the meals, done all the shopping and had everything under control.  Now I had to make adjustments. The little voice in my head said, "Be flexible,"  so I smiled and let go of some of my control.  The thing is when working with groups of people, you can never be fully in control.  Everyone has their own agendas and their own plans. 

These past few days, my challenge to be flexible, and not be in control became a daily ordeal.  This morning was the most challenging when I realized that I needed to be at the church at 8 am but the young men staying next door didn't need to be at the church til 10 am.  Since I am the one feeding them, I had to wait on them.  I asked for them to call me with a time they would like breakfast, but unfortunately, instead of calling me like I asked they tried texting me.  (I gave them my home number, not my cell number.  I never got the text.)  Therefore, I didn't sleep all night because I didn't know when I could feed them.  By 9 in the morning I went over to the house next door to see if they were even up.  We finally agreed to have breakfast ready by 9:30 and by 9:45 they had all shown up to eat.  Let's just say, I was trying hard to keep a smile on my face and be cordial, while all along I was struggling with my agenda versus theirs and wondering if I was justified in my feelings.  All of this is to say, I have to remember to let things go and not worry about having it all under control.  I know I am a people-pleaser and want them to look at me and think, "Wow, she has it under control.  I don't need to worry about a thing,"  But really, who cares what others think. The crux of the matter is who am I doing all of this for?  Is it for me and my ego?  OR is it for the Lord?  I want it to be for God and need to tell my Self to get out of here and chill out.


Ok...just had to vent.  Thanks!

Family Night

The Avengers is out in theaters.

The boys, being boys, wanted to see it.  After doing some research on it (because it is PG-13), we decided that they could watch it.  I don't remember any profanity. There were no sexual scenes or innuendos. It was just heroes fighting bad guys and heroes fighting each other for dominance.  That is it.

Once school was out, the boys and I walked down to the local theater to get the movie tickets for the showing later that night.  If you have been to our town, you might recall that the movie theater is on the opposite side of town from us, probably a few  miles.  Nevertheless, we walked over to it, bought our tickets and walked back home with a detour at the playground.   We were gone for two hours, but it was two hours well spent.









                                

                                                                                                                      

Bonnie's play is this week. We will probably go on Friday to watch it.  I asked her how her play practices here compare to the ones she did in North Carolina with our home school group.  She thought our home school group plays were better organized and more productive.  She said this group has yet to go through the whole play yet and they are performing Friday!  I know it will turn out fine and will get lots of pictures.

Dad's 70th

 It has been six weeks since we celebrated dad's 70th birthday, but I finally got a device that allows me to get the pictures off my phone.  All the family and friends gathered together at my brother's house in Carmel, Indiana. 

 Mom and Laura decided to have a picture of dad from his National Guard days matted and framed and everyone signed it as they came in the door.

 Jim and Laura did a great job with the food.  All kinds of snacks, sandwiches, cakes, and goodies filled the tables.  So much for our diets.  As Jim would say it was a Blow It Day. 

 Dad had a good time.  His sister, Gloria, put together a video of "This Is Your Life."  Gloria and her husband, Weldon, as well as their son, Travis, are big historians.  They have been tracking our family line back to England and Scotland.  Gloria had pictures of dad from when he was a baby til now.  As pictures came up on the scene, stories began to flow.  Jim and I learned a lot about our dad, especially his wild college days. We had a lot of good laughs.

 Several of dad's cousins came over to celebrate, as well as his sister.  Mom's sisters and brother also came.  Several nieces and nephews (my cousins) and old friends made the trip over.

 Pictured here is dad's cousin, Jerry or Butch as everyone calls him and dad's sister, Gloria.

 Standing with my mom is her best friend from high school and college, Karen.  Karen is the one who witnessed to my mom and shared with her the Gospel message.  Karen's family, especially her father, took my mom in and gave her a second home when mom's dad died.  Mom was 14 when that happened.  Karen was a true and faithful friend, and our family feels indebted to her because her witness changed our lives forever.

After the crowd had gone, mom, along with her sister, Patty, Patty's husband, Van, and mom's brother, Charles  had to play a couple of hands of Euchre.  By the end of my trip, they had managed to teach me how to play as well.  It was so good to be with family for that week.  Mom and dad are still considering moving to Indiana. I wouldn't be surprised if they we settled in over there by this time next year.  All of their family with the exception of one sister lives within 30 miles of each other.  It will definitely make it easier for us to see everyone if they all live in the same area.